Sunday, March 10, 2013

painting with yogurt.

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on saturday i was looking for something to do with avery that was different than what we usually do every day.  i finally had a decent amount of time to give her my undivided attention and we didn't have anywhere to go.  she's sort of at the age where she can't really do crafts yet, mostly because she doesn't have the attention span yet, and also because she still likes to put everything in her mouth.  but she's ready to start doing short activities that are different than just playing with her toys.  i have a recipe for edible play dough but i was trying to find something that wouldn't require much work.  i found a few recipes for edible paints but they all required cooking to make the paint and i really wasn't in the mood for that.  so i ended up taking some yogurt, adding food coloring, and dropping it on her highchair tray. she had a ton of fun and quickly discovered that it tasted pretty good, too.  and then we took a bath.  

Saturday, March 9, 2013

a snowy saturday...

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it snowed all day today and avery and i spent the day doing random things around the house and trying to recover from our week.  charlie left to go skiing at 5 am and thankfully both avery and i slept until 7. we had a hard week last week.  between mastitis and last minute work deadlines i was ready to just spend some time with avery without trying to do a million other things at the same time.  and although usually by the time saturday rolls around i'm dying to get out of the house, the fact that the snow was piling up outside made me happy to get a few things done around the house and play with avery.  we took two naps, 'painted' with yogurt, did a bunch of laundry, cleaned out closets that i've been putting off, ate grilled cheese for lunch, read lots of books, and watched the dogs run around in the snow.  

tomorrow we're looking forward to french toast and i think after this snow i'm ready for spring.  and with the forecast showing temperatures in the 70s next week i think we may just get it. 

Thursday, March 7, 2013

a bit of randomness...

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... we got some snow a week or so ago and i tried to take avery out in it for a bit but she was hating all of the wind. i tried putting sunglasses on her but she kept pulling them off. the next day the news headline was "denver buried by blizzard" which I thought was a bit dramatic but it was nice to get some snow. I feel like we haven't had any all winter. I took the dogs out to run around for awhile and they had a blast. We also made French toast for breakfast that morning. And by we I mean Charlie. And we may even have made some bacon as well. It was a pretty good snow day in my book.

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... I'm looking for a nanny for Avery. I still have mixed feelings about this but I'm trying to find someone to come once a week so that I can go into the office or just get a bunch of work done while someone else is playing with her. There's a part of me that's nervous to do this but I think it might be good for her, too. She's really attached to me and sometimes won't even go to Charlie without a fight. I know this can be really normal for a kid her ago but I think it would be good to figure out that other people can be fun and comforting, too. I haven't had much luck yet with the search. But I'm being pretty picky and I don't think that what I'm advertising is all that appealing to a lot of people since it's so part time.

daredevil 
 ... In other work news, I am officially an independent contractor as of last week. I didn't realize how much of a pain this was going to be before I got into it and now I'm trying to figure out invoicing, and sepIRAs, and how to file quarterly taxes. Also, I am missing direct deposit because I hate going to the bank.

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 ... Avery's standing! And learning new words every day. Some recent ones that she's picked up are toes, owl, whoo-whoo, and bow (to tell the dogs to bow). She also says gentle every time she pets the cats, which is pretty cute. She's been getting better about actually being gentle with them lately.

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... I am getting over mastitis for the second time in 2 months. This time was definitely worse than the first. I always laugh when I read about the treatment for it because everyone advises bed rest. Which would be fabulous but isn't very realistic. I have been climbing into bed a lot earlier lately because feeling like you have the flu will make you not want to do much of anything else. After a day of working and chasing after Avery, I'm tired!

she brings me the books and the blanket. 
 ... I'm trying to figure out what I want our Easter traditions to be. We haven done much in the past and Charlie's vote is for doing nothing but I'd like for us to dye eggs the night before, have a small Easter basket that morning with an Easter egg hunt, and cooking a nice dinner that night. We'll see how this year goes since last year all that happened was that Avery and I went to church and then left after 2 hours because she started freaking out.

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... We're planning on heading back to Maryland in June and here's a million things I want to do while we're there. I'm excited we're going in the summer because I want to take Avery to the beach when it's warm enough to go swimming. I also want to take her to the Baltimore aquarium and then back to DC for the air and space museum and the natural history museum. I'm not sure how we're going to squish all of that plus a wedding! into a week.



Wednesday, February 27, 2013

14 months.


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avery's growing up so fast.  doesn't every parent say that?  charlie and i are always watching old videos of her and saying 'i don't remember her being like that'.  here are some of the things she's doing at 14 months.  if you're not my mom then feel free to skip this post because i know these are only interesting for parents and grandparents.

... standing! this was probably the most exciting moment of my life thus far.  i thought she was going to be 5 before she started walking but she finally figured out that she can stand on her own and she's so proud of herself.  it probably doesn't hurt that she has a cheering squad every time she does it.
...  mimicking everything that we say and do.  she can make funny sounds and copy hand gestures and facial expressions.
...  the fake laugh.  this comes out any time she hears anyone else laughing. 
... the fake burp.  she does this when she sees a beer.  this is probably not a good sign.  
...  the fake sneeze.  henry sneezes all the time.  i think he's allergic to avery.  she think's it's pretty funny and will start fake sneezing when he walks in the room.
... calling the cats, the dogs, and charlie.  this all started with the cats but now she uses it when she wants anyone to come to her.  clicking her tongue and patting her knee is her way of saying 'get over here'.
...  she's really into any lift the flap book, the "one thumb, two thumb" book, and her book of animals.  she likes being read to regardless but those are her favorites and after 4 reads i usually have to hide the book.  
... stacking blocks.  we're up to 5 and just like with standing she's quite impressed with herself.
...  toys.  she loves shape sorters, her play kitchen, and anything with lids.
...  she loves her stuffed bunny.  this bunny sleeps with her every night and gets dragged throughout the house.  in the morning when she wakes up i always find her standing in her crib and holding tight to him.
...  words:  thank you, gentle, cat, doggie, mama, dada, hot, owl, bird, baa baa, duck, book, ball, rooster, paw, ear, tail ... and i'm probably forgetting a bunch. 
...  dancing is still a favorite activity and she has quite a few moves that are pretty funny.  i have no idea where she figures these things out.
...  she is terrible at napping and only falls asleep in someones arms, the car, or the stroller.  it sucks.
... she still nursing 3-4 times a day.
... she loves blueberries, strawberries, hot dogs, bananas, yogurt, hummus, peas, and pretty much any meat.  she's a pretty good eater and usually eats 3 meals and 2 snacks a day.  she insists on eating whatever we are and will refuse dinner if it's different from what we're eating.
...  she gives kisses to the animals on the regular and charlie and i receive them less frequently.  
... she hates being alone although she's happy to play with her toys as long as i'm no more than 3 inches away from her.  she prefers to sit in my lap while playing, though.
...  she loves the snow, looking for birds in the sky, pointing out dogs on walks, running errands, baths, and weekends when she gets as much attention as she wants.
...  she loves fish and any aquarium.  i'm excited to take her to the baltimore aquarium and some museums when we go back to maryland this summer.  i'm thinking the natural history and the air and space since they've got some great kid stuff and they also happen to be my favorites.

14 months is pretty cool.  although i look at her baby pictures and think 'where did all of your chunky rolls go?' it's so fun to have an interactive baby and it's really fun to see her figure things out for herself these days. 

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

and then avery got beat up by ollie.

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these pictures were not taken when she got hurt.  this is just how they play.  he's usually really good about not using his claws & avery loves wrestling around with him.

i've mentioned a time or two that avery is madly in love with the cats.  ollie specifically.  she's figured out how to call him and does it all.day.long.  it's pretty cute.  she knows what gentle means and will say it when she pets him but after about 5 seconds she forgets gentle and moves on to smacking, screaming, eye poking, and tail pulling.  most of the time he doesn't care and usually if he does he'll just get up and move away.  but the other day she was playing with him and i wasn't really paying any attention since i was working and then i heard her cry and saw the giant scratch on her face.  

lesson learned:  no unsupervised playing with the cats.  

unfortunately i don't think this will be her last battle wound.  it reminded me of my sister who practically tortured the cat when we were growing up and then used to run to my mom crying whenever he dared to defend himself.  hopefully, avery won't be quite as bad.  :)

Monday, February 18, 2013

lately ...

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...  we're in the process of turning our living room into a playroom/office.  charlie and i both have been working upstairs in our master retreat but i had been thinking that it would be easier if i could consolidate all of avery's toys in one place, both to cut down on the clutter and to keep her entertained longer while i'm working.  i've also been working downstairs a lot because i feel like i'm constantly feeding avery throughout the day and we never really used our living room.  we got some shelves from ikea to keep all of her toys in and i'm in the process of figuring out what to hang on the wall and if i should try and keep our current rug or get a new one.  charlie's not a huge fan of the new set up but it's made my work days so much easier.

Toby followed us until he tunnel. I looks like a crazy person.

...  the other day i was walking the dogs (with avery of course) and toby decided to come along for a bit.  he actually followed us for a while.  we cross through a tunnel at one point and he wouldn't come through there.  it actually makes me a little nervous that he was comfortable going that far.  there have been a lot of coyotes in the open space behind our house at night lately and he looks like a nice coyote-sized snack.

all day. every day.

...  this is my life pretty much all day long.

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...  avery and i went on a lunch date on monday.  we split a grilled cheese at panera.  this kid loves people watching.  and then i took her to target for an hour and until she was so bored she lost her mind.
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...  we got a mini train set at ikea for $10.  avery was unimpressed but charlie's been amused.  despite the fact that i don't want my house to look like an ikea there are so many things that i want at that store!  rugs, kitchen islands, chairs!

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...  this kid is growing up way too fast!  she's sitting indian style, calling the cats and dogs, singing to herself, figuring out puzzles and shape sorters, unscrewing tubes of toothpaste, and imitating everything that we do.  she's still refusing to walk but i have my hopes for 14 months.  we'll see.  

Friday, February 15, 2013

valentines day.

i am a believer in valentines day.  as in, in my world it's right up there with christmas.  this year we started off the morning with charlie making french toast.  how can you have a bad day when it starts off with french toast?  it's just not possible.  it also snowed most of the day.  nothing that would be inconvenient but enough to make me feel like winter is justified.  we've had literally no snow this year and i miss it!  we exchanged gifts and cards in the morning and then we ordered chinese for dinner that night.  charlie was stuck in a meeting so avery and i had to eat without him, but all and all a good day.  it doesn't hurt that i love red and pink.  


vday French toast.
french toast and candles.  we are fancy.

card reading.
valentines day pjs and card reading.

present opening. ignore the fire, the birthday wrapping paper, and the fact that she's sitting on the table.
present opening.  ignore the birthday wrapping paper and all of the safety hazards.

Charlie missed dinner so Toby took his spot.
toby took charlie's place at dinner.